delerak
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Post by delerak on Mar 2, 2023 12:59:52 GMT -5
Absolutely that. You have a culture at the staff level to let the person who is doing the most work to continue no matter their behavior. Which strongly resembles all the abusive people in the game industry. Blaze had all of the cards and used so many people to enact his abuse Ro was also severely abused by staff from the get go. That whole character was an exercise in abuse. I included info about that in my staff complaint as well as a history of how I was undermined and treated throughout the years and it was subsequently completely and entirely ignored. Edited to add: Its also super weird that Shalooonsh was gleefully involved in the grief fest that was my character. Was Ro your Byn character? I actually put in a complaint about that scene for what its worth. Here ya go. It just made me feel uneasy during that scene. Why not just ask for consent? lol. Where is pof Andol? I'd love to talk to that guy, he seemed like a real piece of work the way he treated my wife's PC in Kurac when he was playing a family member, basically insinuating heavily that mudsex was part of her job as a crafter. I hope he reads this and knows that she partially quit because of his behavior toward her PC.
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jkarr
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Post by jkarr on Mar 2, 2023 13:44:32 GMT -5
Where is pof Andol? I'd love to talk to that guy, he seemed like a real piece of work the way he treated my wife's PC in Kurac when he was playing a family member, basically insinuating heavily that mudsex was part of her job as a crafter. I hope he reads this and knows that she partially quit because of his behavior toward her PC. whoa what did he say/do to delewifes kurac char i hope she didnt reciprocat elol
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delerak
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Post by delerak on Mar 2, 2023 13:51:07 GMT -5
Where is pof Andol? I'd love to talk to that guy, he seemed like a real piece of work the way he treated my wife's PC in Kurac when he was playing a family member, basically insinuating heavily that mudsex was part of her job as a crafter. I hope he reads this and knows that she partially quit because of his behavior toward her PC. whoa what did he say/do to delewifes kurac char i hope she didnt reciprocat elol lol nothing serious, just a lot of sexual innuendo crap. lap dance for me, entertain me. Just trying to get her to engage in mudsex which she wasn't really interested in. I think that player likes to play powerful PCs and was always granted the role calls it seems. As we all know staff have their favorites or who the hell knows even RL friends they give those roles to. For the record I don't have a problem per se with that style of play I just wish there was a way to see who wants to be involved and who doesn't. I made a post on the GDB years ago about a consent flag system that got shot down that I think would solve 90% of Arms issues. I would never expose someone to a RP scene they want no part of. For example as a templar I'd rather let someone go then make the player uncomfortable. I can come with an IC reason to let some random elf go then bully them into a torture scene or whatever else the fuck goes on in some players minds.
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pinkerdlu
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Post by pinkerdlu on Mar 2, 2023 14:16:49 GMT -5
whoa what did he say/do to delewifes kurac char i hope she didnt reciprocat elol For the record I don't have a problem per se with that style of play I just wish there was a way to see who wants to be involved and who doesn't. I made a post on the GDB years ago about a consent flag system that got shot down that I think would solve 90% of Arms issues. A consent flag system is something that I've thought about and would absolutely endorse, or implement if I ever came onto the team of an RPI again. A ton of these awkward "not quite against the rules but still really shitty and creepy" situations would be entirely avoided.
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mehtastic
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Post by mehtastic on Mar 3, 2023 9:04:02 GMT -5
Schrodinger's Douchebag was only joking after saying that RPIs should get together and form the Council of Drama. Staff are utterly shocked that people need more than a few days to stop feeling bad about how a staff member was abusive for several years. Get over it, you guys! Talk about cat people and triste and Nyr instead!
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Post by lechuck on Mar 3, 2023 9:18:26 GMT -5
If they wanted us to have such short attention spans, they would run a game full of excitement and enriching stories in order to distract us. Not a painfully tedious snoozefest where nothing happens for weeks on end.
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Post by jcarter on Mar 3, 2023 10:16:46 GMT -5
why wont you jerks stop talking about this and get back to playing npcs for my power fantasy character to dominate? ?
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bebop
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Post by bebop on Mar 3, 2023 10:18:30 GMT -5
Schrodinger's Douchebag was only joking after saying that RPIs should get together and form the Council of Drama. Staff are utterly shocked that people need more than a few days to stop feeling bad about how a staff member was abusive for several years. Get over it, you guys! Talk about cat people and triste and Nyr instead! WTF. 🤦🏻♀️ Seventeen years in this community and nobody in staff gives a good god-damn about me as a human being it seems. It's just really disheartening.
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bebop
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Post by bebop on Mar 3, 2023 10:59:45 GMT -5
Ro was also severely abused by staff from the get go. That whole character was an exercise in abuse. I included info about that in my staff complaint as well as a history of how I was undermined and treated throughout the years and it was subsequently completely and entirely ignored. Edited to add: Its also super weird that Shalooonsh was gleefully involved in the grief fest that was my character. Was Ro your Byn character? I actually put in a complaint about that scene for what its worth. Here ya go. It just made me feel uneasy during that scene. Why not just ask for consent? lol. Where is pof Andol? I'd love to talk to that guy, he seemed like a real piece of work the way he treated my wife's PC in Kurac when he was playing a family member, basically insinuating heavily that mudsex was part of her job as a crafter. I hope he reads this and knows that she partially quit because of his behavior toward her PC. That was my character Mei. The one that I posted in my original post that was beaten publicly naked with a flayed whip. Staff deemed that "was not torture" and didn't require consent. I am really impressed you were on top of it and also sent a complaint in. Thank you so much. You can also see exactly what the "proper channels" aka the complaint pipeline achieves. Nothing, but serving to further hurt the players.
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delerak
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Post by delerak on Mar 3, 2023 11:35:39 GMT -5
That was my character Mei. The one that I posted in my original post that was beaten publicly naked with a flayed whip. Staff deemed that "was not torture" and didn't require consent. I am really impressed you were on top of it and also sent a complaint in. Thank you so much. You can also see exactly what the "proper channels" aka the complaint pipeline achieves. Nothing, but serving to further hurt the players. I've been playing since '99 I was 15 when I started. Back then I had no idea and believed a lot of bullshit, but today I'm old wise and have gray hair, I can spot a bully from a mile away and that guy definitely was that with multiple PCs. Get into an IC position of authority so you can horde your power over your underlings and bully them around. That scene was really fucking dumb, never needed to take place. People will say "but it's IC" but it's really not, it's a way for them to get away from the responsibility of it by saying stupid shit like "BUT ITS ART" or ITS ROLEPLAYING. Sure it's fine if the other person is on board but people feel obligated when they are indoctrinated into Arms community to play out anything and everything which just isn't right.
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Post by nottriste on Mar 3, 2023 11:49:55 GMT -5
Talk about cat people and triste and Nyr instead! These people either literally have brain injuries, or are selectively being retarded in a vain effort to defend rapey dirtbags. Those morons were hypothesizing that I am in middle america because I hate mudsex. [1] hating mudsex is actually more intelligent than loving it, [2] I don't even necessarily hate it, I just like real sex a lot more than typing sexy words to a balding fatass incel or whoever would be on the other side. And I have absolutely zero tolerance for that sweaty, hairy HPV elemental Shalooonsh sexually assaulting people. Staff again prove their moral bankruptcy by allowing "current players" (or 'looonsh alt accounts, who fucking knows) to trash talk former players, lie about them, all in effort to validate their love of a rapist.
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maziel
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Post by maziel on Mar 3, 2023 12:06:27 GMT -5
I've been playing since '99 NPC since '99*
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Post by maziel on Mar 3, 2023 12:13:47 GMT -5
Talk about cat people and triste and Nyr instead! These people either literally have brain injuries, or are selectively being retarded in a vain effort to defend rapey dirtbags. Those morons were hypothesizing that I am in middle america because I hate mudsex. [1] hating mudsex is actually more intelligent than loving it, [2] I don't even necessarily hate it, I just like real sex a lot more than typing sexy words to a balding fatass incel or whoever would be on the other side. And I have absolutely zero tolerance for that sweaty, hairy HPV elemental Shalooonsh sexually assaulting people. Staff again prove their moral bankruptcy by allowing "current players" (or 'looonsh alt accounts, who fucking knows) to trash talk former players, lie about them, all in effort to validate their love of a rapist. I don't read 100% so if I'm wrong here correct me - he's only ever a cyber rapist, right? I mean there's a big difference between between a sex pest, demented, etc. etc. and being, like, a RL rapist. I've also never cared for mudsex. I'm not sure that that makes me intellectually superior - just also prefer the real thing VS message. Same for sexting. Seems like a preference thing to me, maybe. I feel the same about mudsex as I do about getting it on with other males - just kind of boring and doesn't real click in a meaningful way for me.
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Post by nottriste on Mar 3, 2023 12:15:59 GMT -5
These people either literally have brain injuries, or are selectively being retarded in a vain effort to defend rapey dirtbags. Those morons were hypothesizing that I am in middle america because I hate mudsex. [1] hating mudsex is actually more intelligent than loving it, [2] I don't even necessarily hate it, I just like real sex a lot more than typing sexy words to a balding fatass incel or whoever would be on the other side. And I have absolutely zero tolerance for that sweaty, hairy HPV elemental Shalooonsh sexually assaulting people. Staff again prove their moral bankruptcy by allowing "current players" (or 'looonsh alt accounts, who fucking knows) to trash talk former players, lie about them, all in effort to validate their love of a rapist. I don't read 100% so if I'm wrong here correct me - he's only ever a cyber rapist, right? I mean there's a big difference between between a sex pest, demented, etc. etc. and being, like, a RL rapist. I've also never cared for mudsex. I'm not sure that that makes me intellectually superior - just also prefer the real thing VS message. Same for sexting. Seems like a preference thing to me, maybe. I feel the same about mudsex as I do about getting it on with other males - just kind of boring and doesn't real click in a meaningful way for me. Yeah, cyberrapist and IRL stalker with the way he was sending Bebop pictures of her workplace. So it seems like he was a about 10 meters away from being a real rapist.
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maziel
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Post by maziel on Mar 3, 2023 12:18:08 GMT -5
I don't read 100% so if I'm wrong here correct me - he's only ever a cyber rapist, right? I mean there's a big difference between between a sex pest, demented, etc. etc. and being, like, a RL rapist. I've also never cared for mudsex. I'm not sure that that makes me intellectually superior - just also prefer the real thing VS message. Same for sexting. Seems like a preference thing to me, maybe. I feel the same about mudsex as I do about getting it on with other males - just kind of boring and doesn't real click in a meaningful way for me. Yeah, cyberrapist and IRL stalker with the way he was sending Bebop pictures of her workplace. So it seems like he was a about 10 meters away from being a real rapist. Probably would have been a real rapist if he had a lower IQ. Seriously. There are studies about psychopaths with higher IQ being more adaptable to society and less likely to actually commit any crimes.
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